To hug or not to hug.

A hug is a wholesome thing. At least at one time it was. Most people considered a hug genial and benevolent. It conveyed a positive meaning: a praise, an expression of encouragement, or consolation. A hug meant someone was being friendly. Those were the days before sexual harassment issues and sexual assault cases. Now a hug often is suspect. The motivation for touch frequently is questioned. These days the news is filled with stories of sexual abuse. People get into serious legal trouble for hugging or touching another person inappropriately. Public and private schoolteachers and day care providers are keenly aware of this. They are leery about hugging and touching learners, children, and consumers. Sexual abuse lawsuits can destroy reputations and careers. Teachers and providers are asking themselves if hugging or touching is worth a potential personal calamity.